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How To Properly Greet A Dog
What and what NOT to do…
I wanted to write this article for a while now, since not many people think about the right way of greeting a dog. I was also inspired by an adorable and creative sheet that explains this idea in cartoons by Dr. Sophia Yin, DVM, MS (The Art and Science of Animal Behavior).
Avoid — Approaching a Dog that you do not know (whether with their owner or tied up/alone)
Consider the animal’s feelings and perception of your actions before you do anything. You are a stranger, which is the scary unknown and might seem like a threat. Don’t assume that they can tell that you are just a sweet dog lover. You also do not know their demeanor. They might not be as friendly as they look.
Do Instead — Ask or Leave it alone
If the owner is there, make sure to ask if the dog is friendly and accepting of strangers. If they are, then follow the instructions below. If they aren’t, then just leave them alone and you can let the owner know that you think their dog is adorable. (Everyone loves to hear how cute their pet is.)
Avoid — Dogs whose body language show that they are uncomfortable, nervous, aggressive, etc.
What are they communicating to you about how they are feeling? The dog may look so irresistibly adorable that you cannot help wanting to pet and kiss them, but don’t.
Do Instead — Understand the Dog’s body language and see if they are relaxed and comfortable
Learn more about dog’s body language in my article called “Understanding Your Dog”.
Avoid — Running up to the Dog
Imagine yourself in their situation. It’s scary and threatening to see someone run up to you, if you don’t know them, whether it’s a person or an animal.
Do Instead — Walk slowly & relaxed toward the Dog
No need to be awkward or sneaky, just slowly approach the dog and speak softly. Let them warm up to you, just like how we have to do to introduce ourselves to someone new.
Avoid — Eye contact OR Leaning down toward the Dog
Looking or staring at dogs’ eyes is like challenge to them. This is only really alright to do with your own dog that is extremely familiar with you. Leaning down toward their faces looks threatening. Avoid confrontation.
Do Instead — Approach Indirectly & Give the Dog space
Walk up to the dog sideways, but leave the dog enough space (a “cushion of protection”) and use your peripheral vision to look.
Avoid — Putting Out Your Hand For A Dog To Sniff
Since I was young, I have been told that you are supposed to put out the back of your hand to let a dog sniff you, so that the dogs will get to know you. In fact, this is not recommended. If the dog is nervous or scared your hand reaching out looks like a threat and will become a wonderful chew toy. In a room, a dog usually has your scent already, before you even approach them.
Do Instead — Let the Dog Come To You
When the dog feels comfortable enough, they will approach you (and probably sniff you a lot and rub against you). A treat might help, but do not shove the treat in their face, let them come to you and get it. Even at this point, try not to excite them. Stay calm and pet them gently. They might even initiate play.
Good luck making your new doggy friend!
